We toss the word perfect around like confetti.
“That meeting went perfectly.”
“That dress fits perfectly.”
“This plan is perfect.”

It’s baked into our language, stitched into our expectations, and subtly woven into the fabric of our self-worth. We strive, we polish, we tweak—believing that once we reach some invisible standard, then we’ll finally be enough. But perfection, as we chase it, is a mirage shimmering in the desert of “not quite there yet.”

The truth? You already are what you’re trying so hard to become.

In spirit form, you are whole. Complete. Perfect.
The very essence of you—the spark that animates your creativity, your kindness, your insight—doesn’t need improvement. It simply wants to be expressed.

Every piece of work you release into the world, every conversation you have, every decision you make in alignment with your authentic self—it’s already perfect because it carries you in it. Your unique fingerprint of divinity.

When we constantly measure ourselves against an unattainable standard, we lose energy to the future—to a fantasy of how things should be—rather than inhabiting the beauty of what is. That striving drains the soul and dims the joy of creation.

Think of how we use the word perfect in nature.
A perfect sunrise.
A perfect ocean wave.
A perfect mountain silhouette at dusk.

We’re not grading nature on performance. We’re witnessing its essence. Its being.

In that same way, when you connect with your authentic self, you connect with perfection itself. Not the kind that needs applause or validation—but the quiet, eternal perfection of truth expressed. So take a breath. Let go of the chase.

If you’re ready to release the pressure of perfection and rediscover your authentic power, I invite you to schedule a coaching session with me. Together, we’ll explore how to reconnect with the part of you that’s already whole—and always has been. You can use the contact form below or text me at 512-922-4822.